It seems that all I do is bitch

But seriously? I dont understand why some people do the things they do. I dont recall if I mentioned this or not, but my dads "friends" walked up into my house as if they owned the place while we were gone for a funeral. My dad was asleep.
Anyway, last night Jason and I kept hearing a knock on the door but when we checked outside there wasnt anyone there. The second time it happened, we jumped up and looked and noone was there again. I decided to call the cops. The police dpt asked ifI wanted an officer to come talk to us or just patrol the neighborhood. I said, patrolling the neighborhood would be fine. My dad woke up this morning and asked if the cops came by. He then said the knocks sounded like gunfire. Gunfire? In this little safe town? Highly unlikely! Not to mention, I live in a safe neighborhood as well. I honestly think the neighbor boy had some friends over and started to play jokes. No biggy. Anyway, I said "Gunfire in this town? Ya right" He said it's quite possible, so I popped off with "Well with your shady friends, probably". It was rude, I know it was. But i'm sorry. I'm just puttinga barrier up so that when he does kill himself (be it, depression, alcohol poisoning, or something else) it doesnt hurt so much. He has done this to himself. He has gone so down hill that I honestly dont want to have a close relationship with him anymore. I cant. I dont know how too. And the sad part is, my mom acts as if I dont exist.
This is why i'm so adamant about moving near Jasons family. B/c Drakes family isdown that way. As is Syd's and so will this baby's family. I didnt get to grow up in my later years, when it would have mattered more, with myfamily. It's lonely and made me feel so very isolated. My kids need to know their roots. Who their gparents are and were. And it's more important to be around the whole group than just one or two.

I struggle with trying to please everyone. I need to do what's best for me, my kids and my little family i've created. I need that. That's whatmakes me feel complete. Being around someone who brings me down, I just cant do it anymore. I cannot sit here and enable someone then let that person bring me to my lowest level again.

He is a grown man. If he cant act likeit and get his shit straight. Then I refuse to do it. I have my own life I need to take care of. And there are 3 little kids that depend on me.

I've always been fine not having my parents around. I can handle it again.

Seriously?

Ya know? If something doesnt belong to you, do not touch it!!!
I got my camera out of my purse and noticed my USB cable is missing. This is the SECOND time it's gone missing! It's mine. It goes to MY camera dont flipping touch my shit! This means someone had to go into my purse and take it out of my camera case.
I am so sick of this.
Not to mention,while we were gone to Jasons moms house for spring break last month. I came home to my dads mildew smelling washer in my laundry room. My dad told me that my washer hadbustedit's seal so he switched them. Fine, I ran some vinegar through and it smells better now. Except, where's MY washer at?! He gave it to afriend who had NOTHING....so he says. Was that his place or right to do that? NOPE! Now, i'm all forhelping someone out.But when you take my things and pass them on and dont even tell me or better yet ASK me. I have serious problems with this. It's rude and disrespectful.
I found out that some people I dont care tobe in my house were here this past week when we were gone toJasons gma's funeral. The TV had smears on it. So did my new microsuede lounger. (needs to be cleaned, but not the point) How does one eat so much food in one week? I"m beginning to think he's feeding his drug head friends. It's really pissing me off. I do NOT want themhere. I'mnot kidding. They wont come over when i'm here b/c they KNOW i'll call the police. But WTF!?Have some damned respect!!!! Not to mention how they just walked all up in my house like they owned the place while mydad was sleeping and I wasnt home.
My dads g/f is putting me in the middle of their shit. I've had it, i'mfed up. If it wasnt for Syds surgery and the multitude of doc appts we have in the next 2 weeks....i'd already pack my crap up, rent a u-haul and a storage unit and move.
I'm sick of the lies and flat out disrespect. Grow the fuck up!!! You're a grown ass man!
Oh and how about the roaches andants I have in my house? Ya, ive asked the land lord AND the owner to fix the problem. ANd they havent. So, instead of a rent check on May1 they are recieving a 30day notice of an early termination of lease.
They knew of these roaches prior to ourmove in as I asked him to spray.Which didnt happen.So we hadtoget it sprayed 2weeks after ourmove in.
Grrrr

A few of my issues lately.

Ok, my dad lives with me. I knew it wasnt going to work out. I just dont know why I let this happen.
Smoking. It bothers me. Period. Dont smoke around me, dont smoke near the doors standing out side and my GOD.....STOP SMOKING IN YOUR ROOM!!!! I can smell it through the vents.
Stop letting your drughead friends here. I do NOT want them around me or my kids. I didnt want them knowing where I lived, and you chose to let them come over. Disrespect! Leave my cat alone. Dont hit, kick or throw her across the room. AND STOP locking her in my room when i'm gone!!! Her food and litter box are not in my room and I do NOT want poop smelling my room up b/c Piper cant get to her box.
Stop eating like a glutton. I dont mind you eating groceries, but my God. Most of the convienence foods are for the KIDS when I dont feel like cooking. NOT for you to glutton down. Funny how you DONT eat when we're here, yet eat like you'll never eat again when we're gone. STOP putting your dirty clothes into the washer expecting me to wash them. I have to take them out to do mine. Thereis a laundry basket for your clothes in there. That's where they go.
STOP rearranging the house when we leave!!!
Keep your dog off my furniture. Leave Jasons sub woofer and wiring alone!!! Put DVD's BACK in the case when you're done watching b/c now, 2 brand new DVD's are RUINED!!! Stop showering and shaving in my bathroom. You have your own. Noone goes in there but you.
I do NOT want your trashy friend, his wife and their 2 mangey ass kids in my house, messing up my kids books, bedrooms and eating my food. Stop drinking. You're an alcoholic and myGod, it reaks through your pores. These smells make me puke. That's why I went hauling ass to the bathroom and gagged my eyeballs out for 30 minutes several times.
I think i'm done.

Jason and I are talking about moving down to Helena. As much as I despise this town. And semi fear for our safety. I dont think it'll be a huge problem for several factors. Jasons family is known in town and has a good name. We'll be moving into Jasons Grandma and Grandpa's old house once his aunt and uncle move out. So we wont have a house payment. If Jason can get on at the prison where his uncle works, that will give us the extra money to put Drake and Syd into a private school. Also, it puts us near Drakes dads family, Syds family my new baby's family. My family is so far away. And it just doesnt make much sense to stay somewhere that has noone. (NWA) It was lonely growing up w/o my family. I cant do that to my kids. It's isolating. Gary will probably pitch a fit. And I hate moving Drake away from his dad, but I have to do what's best for my family as a whole. Gary doesnt get Drake any extra. Like court ordered visitation such as spring break, christmas and summer. I wont let him dictate where i'm at anymore. I know Drake loves his daddy. But i'm doing what I think is best.

I find out what we're having on Monday. I'll let you guys know. :)

Wow! It's been a while.

Well here's the down low.
* We received Drake and Syd's $ from the accident. Waiting on mine and Jason's.
* We moved in January to a nice house. Huge back yard. Blah.
* We're talking about moving back to Jason's hometown. Financial and family reasons.
* I am pregnant!!! WOW big woops. But we're dealing. I'm due 9.21.09
* Jason and I got married on 4.11.09 :) I love him lots!!!
* Bought a new car and some other things. And we're overall doing a lot better!!!!
* Drake started seeing a counselor and we're getting tested in May for ADD.
* Syd is getting her tonsils and adnoids removed with tubes put in her ears in May. Hopefully this will help her hearing and speech.

It's late, but we just got internet back and I cant log onto blogspot from my cell. So I had to wait. Boo hiss! :p

I'll update more later.